Feb 17, 2010: Please introduce yourself
This week’s reading: Matthew 4:1-11 and John 21: 15-19
Well, I must say we have an exciting group of people, full of energy for this online book discussion! We officially begin here on Ash Wednesday, the start of Lent. We will spend the next few days getting to know each other a little bit, with the discussion of the book beginning on Monday. As a reminder, the schedule for the discussion is located at the top right hand corner of the “home” page.
I ask each of you to take a moment to share something of yourself with the rest of the group. Below are some topics you can write about. You don’t need to write about them all - share what you think is important.
- Where are you geographically located?
- Where do you invest your daily energy?
- How did you first hear about Henri Nouwen? / What draws you to his life or writing?
- What is the significance of Ash Wednesday/Advent in your church tradition or in your personal life?
- Give an example of when you filled the role of “Christian leader.” (Be creative… Christian leaders are found in many different roles)
- What words or phrases jumped out at you from the Matthew and John readings?
I’m looking forward to getting to know you all a little better!
Brynn
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February 27th, 2010 @ 1:15 pm
I am blessed to be in the company of people who have been touched by the writings of Henri.
I am 64 years old (the same age as Henri when he died) and live in the Central Valley of California.
By God’s grace I came upon one of Henri’s books, A Sabbatical Journey, in 1998, the year before my wife of 30 years, Susan, died. Henri’s writings, especially about death and grieving, sustained me during my grieving. They continue to sustain and amaze me through the years and events in my life, including my marriage in 2001 to Sandra,a second wonderful woman.
As I continued to read his works, I found in Henri the heart of my Catholic beliefs, a heart I hadn’t before realized was there: that God is unconditional love, that the Father has infinite love for each of us, and that we are to let his love and the love of his Son and Spirit,shine through us to others. John
February 26th, 2010 @ 10:13 pm
‘We are doing this together’ is what our life is all about. It is such a comfort that the Holy Spirit gives us each other to journey through this life. I also love the words Jesus gives us ‘Do not worry about tomorrow, Tomorrow will take care of itself’. We know we can complete our mission if we take one day at a time.
To Shawn #32: You are in my thoughts and prayers always. AJ
February 24th, 2010 @ 5:14 pm
A warm welcome to you both!
Just a reminder though, let’s move the entire conversation up to this week’s discussion. I fear other people will miss these valuable introductions.
I do welcome more introductions, but please post them in this week’s discussion, Feb 22 Prologue and Introduction.
See you there!
February 24th, 2010 @ 11:21 am
Hello! I am grateful for the opportunity to join this inspiring group who seem to be seekers of a deeper spiritual life, of a renewal of spirit during the Lenten season and of continuing exploration of the holiness of Henri Nouwen.
I am in Omaha NE. I spent 20 wonderful years as a Catholic sister in a Benedictine order; left the community feeling God’s continuing call. Later met and married, was widowed after 16 months and given the gift of another wonderful marriage. To be one in worship, I joined him in the Lutheran Church and for 20+ years have found that community of believers a source of enrichment and holiness.
Nouwen’s books were often a source of meditation while in the convent. I find in him a kindred spirit to expresses what my soul experiences in terms of the continuous struggle between seeking oneness with God and my own brokenness.
I have been richly blessed in life, have had much opportunity share God’s love and seek ways to continue to share that. I have taught prayer classes in the Lutheran church based on richness of prayer I developed as a Benedictine with lexio divino.
Norma
February 23rd, 2010 @ 8:25 pm
I live in the Asheville, NC area and am a member of an Episcopal church. My husband and I are empty nesters now and are thankful our two children are doing well. My job as a public school kindergarten teacher takes up most of my time, but I also take communion to the homebound and am in a book club at my church.
I have been drawn to Henri Nouwen’s books partly because of his focus on God’s love. I especially like The Return of the Prodigal Son. Lent is a time for me to try to spend more time in prayer and focusing on God’s will for my life.
February 22nd, 2010 @ 8:39 pm
Hi Everyone,
It’s MONDAY! Please move the conversation to the next discussion titled “Monday February 22nd Prologue and Introduction” If you click on the word “Home” at the top of this page, you will find the Home page, and the new discussion posting at the very top.
You can continue to respond to each other’s introductions, but let’s move it over so we don’t miss anything.
A reminder, if you are looking for the reading schedule, there is a link at the top right hand of the home page.
You can also email me at nouwen.letters@utoronto.ca if you have ANY questions.
Thanks,
Brynn
February 22nd, 2010 @ 3:58 pm
I live in Central Kentucky where I teach middle and high school Bible classes at a Christian Academy. I first across Nouwen’s book s around ten years ago. I don’t remember which one I read first, but it seems like I’ve never stopped. At that time I was still serving in full-time ministry in a local church, and the whole idea of the Wounded Healer spoke to me in a way that nothing else has.
My spiritual background is in the non-denominational Restoration Movement (churches of Christ. independant Christian), so Ash Wednesday and Advent had absolutely no significance for me while I was growing up. I was raised in the typical “We’re the only ones doing the Christian thing right” mentality. I have since come to embrace the Liturgical aspects of my wider Chirstian family, and it has also brought a deeper sense of God’s presence in my life.
February 22nd, 2010 @ 11:17 am
I live in Sutton about an hour north of Toronto where I attend a 170 yr old church. Lent is a time for me to look within and seek the things that that block my path to God’s peace and Love. I discover grudges and distractions that I never knew were there. Once I have dealt with them it seems a wall has been removed…. I feel ‘lighter’. Henri Nouwen has had huge inpact on my Christian journey. I discovered him in a book store in nearby Newmarket in 1998. I saw a wee book jammed between much larger ones. I, actually, struggled to rescue this book. It was Henri’s ‘Way of the Heart’. Only 70 pages! I read it just standing there feeling those goose bumps. I said to myself ‘Henri must have wrote this with me in mind’. That one and other books by Henri gave me new thoughts and better understandings of of Jesus and his Walk. And to think Henri and I worked with the mentally handicapped in different locations a few kms apart…and I didn’t know it!
February 22nd, 2010 @ 12:29 am
PS (for Rick),
I’ve just worked out that if you go to the top of this page and click on prologue and introduction Brynn has outlined the discussion for this week and then we comment on that new page. I’m new to on-line groups so I’m learning as I go along!
February 22nd, 2010 @ 12:22 am
To Rick #62,
You are very welcome. I borrowed a copy of Henri’s “In the Name of Jesus” today from my local Christian resource centre. I think this week we are going to discuss the Prologue and Introduction of that book as part of this Lenten journey - so perhaps this book would be a good place for you to start. I have not read this one before so am looking forward to reading and discussing it with this group. Hope this helps!
February 22nd, 2010 @ 12:11 am
Good evening, from the snow country of Rapid City South Dakota, where our weather my be cold, but our hearts and souls are warmed by the Holy Spirit. This is my second attempt to let you know I am looking forward to the discussion. Mamy long years ago I read “Reaching Out” as part of an exposure/reflection class in seminary. I recently lead a discussion group on “The Return of the Prodigal Son” My other kinship with Fr. Nouwen, I work with cognitively disabled adults. May the Lord be with you.
February 21st, 2010 @ 9:58 pm
To Michelle no.62,
Thank you so very much for sharing a bit of your faith journey with me. It is comforting to hear that someone else has experienced similar struggles. I hope to feel back in the fold through Henri and and fine spiritual friends like yourself.
As I am brand new to Henri I’m not quite sure where to start but am very open to any suggestions.
Peace and blessings to you.
February 21st, 2010 @ 6:29 pm
To Rick #52,
I relate to your experience of being profoundly touched by Henri and to your struggle to find a spiritual path that is right for you. I grew up Catholic and moved away from it to explore other denominations and even other faith traditions. What Henri has done for me is to help me consolidate all that learning and reframe it in a way that has made me feel comfortable back in the fold of Christian traditions - although I would describe myself now as ecumenical, rather than specifically catholic. I feel like I have “come home”( a term of Henri’s) in many ways. I pray that you continue to find Henri such an inspiration.
To Grace #55,
I was touched by your honesty and vulnerability and by the workings of the Holy Spirit in your life. I too have often felt that there is no-one to “hear me or be there for me” and have at times allowed myself to be consumed with resentment about it, especially since I am able to always be there for and listen to others. Over time I have come to realise that no-one can really be there for me in the way that I need except for God ( and Jesus and the Holy Spirit). So I have tried to nurture my relationship with the God who dwells deep within me, who is always there for me and thus for the most part I feel less alone. Henri has helped me so much in my journey and I pray that his guidance can do the same for you.
Blessings to everyone - I feel so privileged to be in your company.
February 21st, 2010 @ 5:41 pm
Thanks to our most recent additions. I truly appreciate your openness in sharing.
I wanted to share this verse: John 10:9-10
Jesus says “I am the gate; whoever enters through me will be saved. He will come in and go out, and find pasture. The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life and have it to the full.”
I hope everyone will join in this weeks discussion!
Brynn
February 21st, 2010 @ 5:35 pm
So happy to join the lenton spiritual journey. My work as a Geriatric nurse case manager along with time devoted to my wonderful family leaves little to join a group. The online opportunity is great! I look forward to the journey, learning from all of you as I reach out to deepen and renew my faith.
February 21st, 2010 @ 4:36 pm
To Amy,
Our lives seem to run parallel, although mine is further along! I look for miracles everyday and I find them! Being with the dying and going on their last journey on this earth is an truly an incredible experience. What a gift God has given us. I look forward to this Lenten time to be together and share.
Judy on Kauai
February 21st, 2010 @ 4:03 pm
Aloha to all the readers and pray-ers and we are enjoying our beginning of the 40 days waiting for the Resurrection Day here on our island–RC
February 21st, 2010 @ 12:19 pm
Hi all,
My first time participating in an online book dicussion.
My home is Guelph Ontario,love the town. I am a teacher and I have been teaching grades 7 and 8, a challenging bunch but well worth the effort. I am drawn to Henri Nouwen writing because he is so honest with his struggles, doubts and weaknesses. I feel he has something to tell me. I’m sorry I haven’t had time to read all the above comments but I will try next week to keep up.
February 21st, 2010 @ 6:25 am
Hello, my apologies for joining late. I finished reading two spiritual books the past week, including “The Prodigal Son.” I’m currently reading “The Inner Voice.”
I live on an island in the Western Pacific. My energy is divided in prayer and finishing my thesis.
I first heard of Fr. Henri Nouwen when I was at our Cathedral-Basilica bookstore and the priest who was there recommended “The Prodigal Son.” That book spoke to me. I went back to the bookstore a month later and discovered Nouwen had written more books and was drawn to “The Inner Voice.” The same priest was there and said Nouwen has many books that are good. He’s right.
Last night I did a Google/Wiki search to learn more about Fr. Nouwen’s life and came across this Website.
I’ve been going through a rough time the past two months, and wrote in my journal that no one has the capacity (or energy) to “hear me or be there for me.” When I came across Nouwen’s book, I realized his writings spoke to me because it seemed he went through a similar struggle.
I continue on my spiritual journey and hope that readings and sharing will help me deepen and increase my faith, trust, and hope.
Thank you for having a generous capacity to help us on our Lenten journey.
February 20th, 2010 @ 11:35 pm
As part of our Lenten reflection our parish staff is encouraged to read In the Name of Jesus and participate in this blog. I agree with my pastor who feels this book is particularly good for those of us serving in the church. I am looking forward to reading everyone’s comments and reflections.
Paula
February 20th, 2010 @ 5:43 pm
I live in Connecticut and am interested in participating in spiritual meditations during lent.
February 20th, 2010 @ 12:54 pm
Hello from Springfield, Missouri. I purchased the book “Behold the Beauty of the Lord” last Fall from a Trappist Monastery in the area. I only got so far as looking at the icons, I am embarrassed to say. I have been searching and praying for a spiritual path for several years now, dabbling in Buddhism, Hinduism, and starting RCIA a couple of time, never fulling committing to any. I watched the DVD “Journey of the Heart: Henri Nouwen” last evening and am just blown away today. I am especially touched and inspired by his life’s work and mission as priest/educator, his openness and growth through his struggles and his devotion to the clients at L’Arche. I believe that he has touched me in such a way that I have never experienced in my 53 years of life and searching for God. My work is that of a guitar instructor and occasional performer.
As I don’t formally belong to a church tradition, I don’t know that Ash Wednesday or Lent holds any significance for me today, but as a child raised in the Presbyterian Church, I only recall Easter.
Although I have never officially filled the shoes of a Christian Leader, I did work as a hospice music therapist for a few years, not long ago, and prayed with people when asked. I always find that experienced very moving and felt honored to be able to be a part of that.
Thank you so very kindly for letting me join you.
Peace and blessings to you all, Rick
February 20th, 2010 @ 12:06 pm
It is Saturday morning, and I’ve been spending some time reflecting on the prologue and introduction. I’m already looking forward to Monday and the beginning of the week’s discussion. There is much to discuss!
I am just amazed by the fact that we are a community of people from all over the world! Yet, of course there is so much that we have in common.
A continued welcome to everyone. Still time for introductions if you are “out there.”
Brynn
February 20th, 2010 @ 9:36 am
To Judy Smith:
As a current executive director for a hospice, I am looking forward to getting better acquainted. Like you, I find the work very rewarding, with many opportunities to see miracles and blessings every day.
Amy
February 20th, 2010 @ 1:41 am
59 year old religious, involved full-time in Congregational charism and spirituality animation. This book is one of the most exciting books I have ever read on the question of real leadership and authentic Christian “authority” - very much needed today in our understanding of Church. I am enriched by Henri Nouwen’s humanity in search of the human face of the God who transforms us!
February 19th, 2010 @ 5:21 pm
My home is in a suburb of Detroit, Michigan. My time is spent doing a lot of volunteer work and also sewing, making things for people. My Stephens Ministries leader recommended Henri Nouwen’s books to me, particularly as I was a caregiver to a person in her last years of life. Ash Wednesday and Lent are very important to me and I always observe a Lenten discipline, wanting to draw closer to God and more discerning and faithful in my relationships to others. Another person in my congregation and I volunteered to go with our Pastor to start an assisted living weekly worship ministry. There were so few of us there that I had to get up the courage to read the scripture and pray aloud. Those weekly worship experiences have led me to lead the worship from time-to-time when our Pastor takes a vacation or has to be away. What leaps out at me from this week’s scripture is the repetitions of 3–three temptations, 3 questions Jesus ask of Simon Peter. Isn’t it curious the temptations from Satan were each distinctly different yet the questions Jesus asked were distinctly the same except the direction Jesus gave then was a little bit different in each case. I have found in my own life, the number 3 to be very significant spiritually too and it all leaves me a bit thunderstruck. I also am looking forward very much to the discussion ahead.
February 19th, 2010 @ 11:07 am
Your welcome Mark!
Season Opener (Ash Wednesday) before the Superbowl (EASTER)
It’s the grind of something that you have prepared for that takes commitment, discipline, courage, and strength that can only come from above!
A friend posted a comment today on FB that I will share. What you are is God’s gift to you. What you become is your gift to God! I’ve heard this before but it’s just good to hear it again.
Together, this is going to be the best 40 days of our lives!
February 18th, 2010 @ 11:00 pm
Hi,
My name is Carla and I live in Denver, CO. I stumbled upon this website after purchasing “The Dance of Life”. I am looking to grow spiritually this Lent. I have Nouwen’s “With Open Hands” that has been with me since the 70’s. I have read some of Nouwen’s works and what draws me to him is the fact that he has found redemption out of his own suffering. I will look forward to this online community
February 18th, 2010 @ 10:09 pm
judy on Kauai;
PS I would like to receive the daily devotions via e-mail. What do I need to do?
Hi Judy,
Just go to http://www.henrinouwen.org/home/free_eletters/ and you can sign up to receive either daily or weekly meditations.
Brynn
February 18th, 2010 @ 10:06 pm
To Jeanne:
I was particularly moved by your post, as my husband left the pastoral ministry in 2001 after experiencing the death of a teenage son and the miscarriage of our unborn child. It was a difficult time where we did not always feel a loving and supportive community, and it has taken many years to move past these difficult feelings. Some of those hurts still linger, even now. You will be in my thoughts and prayers this Lenten season as you seek refreshment and renewal.
Amy
February 18th, 2010 @ 9:55 pm
Judy Carter Smith in on the Island of Kauai
It was good to hear from Judith #34. I am a nurse also. I recently retired from Kauai Hospice as the Executive Director. My heart is in caring for the dying and helping people navigate through the Health Care System. My husband and I are active in intercessory prayer and witness many miracles! God is so good and faithful!
Chris # 35, my granddaughter graduated from Westmont…Emily Katz. What a blessing Westmont is.
February 18th, 2010 @ 8:35 pm
Hello everyone,
My name is Michelle and I live in Australia, I am married with two children aged 10 and 21. Henri is my soulmate - his every word resonates within my own heart. Lent is always a special time for me because I can journey with Jesus in his struggles and feel that he is with me in mine. It is a time of reflection and preparation for the great joy that He promised is mine. I have struggled and yearned for God in the depths of my being and He knows my heart is His. Each easter brings me closer to the fullness of joy I am yet to experience. I know I need to claim it - I trust that the Holy Spirit will lead me there. I have been a christian leader in many ways and more and more I realise that I lead more successfully by example (being) than by action (doing). I have struggled with this as I’ve become more chronically ill and unable to “do” all the things I used to. I now try to let each day unfold and try to shine where I am - in the little ways I am able. I remind myself that as long as my heart is His all will be well. On reading Matthew and John, I am reminded that loving God requires a deep faithfulness and that I often stumble in my own loving.
February 18th, 2010 @ 6:21 pm
Hello I am 71 years old. I just learned something today from one of my sons. He told me that I am bound by the law of abstinence from meat and meat products on the Wednesdays of Lent (I knew about Ash Wednesday and Good Friday). Good thing I brought up the children to keep up with our religion and her rules. First time for me in this site. Hope to come back a lot during this season of Lent for more reflection, prayers and instruction.
Nancy Van Buren Albany NY
February 18th, 2010 @ 5:37 pm
Greetings from Bradford Ontario. Henri Nouwen has been a main stay on my faith journey. One thing I appreciate most about Henri’s writing is his authenticity and courage to be vulnerable in sharing his story. His ‘realness’ has been an inspiration as I grow in faith and maturity. I am a catechist in the catholic Church. I lead and work with children (6 and older) who seek full initiation in the Church. I work with the parents of these children as they reconnect to their Catholic roots. Henri writes without shame of the human condition as a broken people. Lent is a time to name my brokeness and offer it to God in trust for healing in the faith journey of the season. Admitting brokeness makes room for new life…he has been instrumental in teaching me how to live the Paschal Mystery, a prophet of our time. The first time I read this book what stood out most on my heart was Henri’s idea that as leaders, we lead by following. My hope for this book study is that I live faithfully a prayerful Lent seasoned well with quiet joy and that in leading by following, those I am called to love and serve understand more deeply the incredible man, friend and guide we have Jesus and have the courage to offer their own brokeness for healing. I believe healing will follow. Mine and those I serve. I look forward to the journey, What Amy shared…ditto. Peace and Blessings.
February 18th, 2010 @ 5:02 pm
I am located in Columbia, Maryland in the I-95 corridor between Baltimore and Washington. I work for a small non-profit in Washington that serves as a Federal advisory committee to the Federal Aviation Administration (FAA). We organize and administer many aviation community committees to consensus-based recommendations related to the modernization of our nation’s air traffic management system.
Much more important, I am a husband (of about 18 months) and the father of seven children and three grandchildren in our blending family. My wife and I are members of a Catholic Charismatic community.
I first learned about Henri Nouwen about 30 years ago from a priest friend although I honestly cannot recall what Henri Nouwen book which of his books I read first. In the past seven or eight years I have been particularly touched by The Return of the Prodigal Son, Life of the Beloved, Spiritual Direction, and in the past 12 months, In the Name of Jesus, Beloved—Conversations with Henri Nouwen, and Home Tonight. Two themes from Nouwen’s writings that are particularly meaningful to me are the truth that we are all “Beloved” and that during the course of our lives we each find ourselves as the prodigal son, the elder son, and, by the Lord’s grace, the father that the Lord is calling us to be
As a cradle Catholic, Ash Wednesday is a milestone in the year. It is an annual reminder that, in the words of St. Paul in the Ash Wednesday second reading, “Behold, now is a very acceptable time; behold, now is the day of salvation.” I was blessed to attend the noon day Mass at Cathedral of St. Matthew in Washington, DC where the principal celebrant was Archbishop Wuerl. I also really appreciate Phillip comparing Lent to the “season opener.” As a lifelong baseball fan, given that Ash Wednesday is generally in mid-February, for me it is more like the beginning of “spring training”(and don’t we all need to train for our journey) with the “season opener” coming on Easter—the day that the gates of heaven were opened to all. (Coincidentally, pitchers and catchers reported to the Baltimore Orioles spring training camp on Ash Wednesday this year.)
For a number of years I have served as a small group leader for teens preparing to receive the Sacrament of Confirmation. This year my wife and I are sharing this Christian leadership role together. It is a tremendous opportunity to join nine young people as we walk together on our journey of faith and to share a few of the important lessons we have learned along the way. Henri was the source of two of those lessons–that we are all God’s beloved and that we all are tempted as Jesus was.
Words that touched me from the Scripture readings: Jesus was led by the Spirit. That is good advice for us all. Jesus repeatedly asked Peter the same question that he repeatedly asks us, “Do you love me?”
Sorry for the length of this post. I am looking forward to this Lenten journey with all of you.
February 18th, 2010 @ 2:48 pm
Hello everyone!
My name is Chris and I am a southern California transplant to Washington, DC. I have served in various leadership roles back at my church in California-mostly in student ministries.
My background is protestant and I am now a member of Washington National Cathedral and learning about Lent.
The first book I read by Nouwen was required reading for a course when I was at Westmont College in Santa Barbara. It was “The Living Reminder” and I have been reading his work ever since. I very enjoy reading and reflecting on Daily Devotionals emailed to me each day. Also I am looking forward to learning for of all of you and texts as we prepare for Holy Week.
February 18th, 2010 @ 2:39 pm
Maybe I will go by #34. You see I am Judy Smith as well. I live in the snowy Coldwater ONt area in Canada and Judy(#22) there are 8 Judy Smiths within 30 miles of my home!!!
I have been away from this site for a bit but get the daily meditations . I have been married, for 40 years as of last week and have a daughter living in Papua New Guinea and a son in BC.
I was an avid “fan” of Henri’s writings for years and did meet him years ago briefly.
I have been raised a Catholic, was part of a parish team in the 90s, and think of myself as an ecumenical Christian and try to live that life……I find the spiritual journey fascinating,and exhausting some days. I look forward to participating.
I continue to work part time in palliative care as a nurse.
Judy
February 18th, 2010 @ 1:06 pm
Lovely to read each of these posts. Thank you for your openness and honesty. I hope this Lent will be a time of deepening, as well as a time of renewal.
May I suggest setting aside a specific and regular quiet time, that you will observe throughout this Lent. A guarded time, in which you can be still before God, and reflect on what he is teaching us. I find if I don’t commit myself to a regular time, the time escapes me!
I continue to welcome more introductions! You still have a few days yet. Please don’t be shy.
Brynn
February 18th, 2010 @ 9:53 am
Thank you Phillip for that analogy of Ash Wed as “the season opener” … I want to keep that one on file to use in a future Ash Wed sermon.
February 18th, 2010 @ 9:50 am
I am located in Ontario, Canada. I am retired so enjoy the great gift of time to do many things. I first learned of Henri Nouwen when I purchased the book on ‘Prayer, the Only Necessary Thing’. I belong to a Protestant church and our minister provides a Lenten Bible study which began yesterday on Ash Wednesday. I have been asked to train as a Home Church Leader.
February 18th, 2010 @ 8:04 am
Good Morning,
I have enjoyed reading your comments and welcome you as new friends. I am from Virginia, raised in the Protestant tradition but my church encourages participation in Lent. This is my first year giving it serious thought. What do I want to sacrifice? I was introduced to Henri Nouwen’s writing a few years back and love his works. I am experiencing a spiritual crisis of sorts in that I have been kicking and screaming not wanting to listen to the Spirit’s voice and leading. My husband left the full-time ministry 10 years ago, we relocated and I have been floundering ever since. My whole life, as I knew it, changed and I’ve been mad ever since. I have good seasons, though, and not all is gloom and doom, and I am anticipating a renewing spirit as the Lenten season progresses. Thank you for providing this venue to grow in the Spirit.
February 18th, 2010 @ 7:49 am
Hello,
I live in Terre HauteIN. It means higher ground but I have not been living on higher ground. I moved from my home of 20 years in Colorado where I worked at the church in many different aspects of ministry. I was excited every day to see what God had in store… once I moved I chose to let it all go. I have not even talked to God much I now spend my time traveling and thinking about my kids and grandson I am always on an adventure but I am now entering Lent searching for a way to allow God to be part of the adventure.I have a handicapped daughter so I have always loved HN because of his connection there I am on my way to the basement to FIND my Bible and will read it this morning as the beginning to my newest adventure
I pray right now for God to renew my soul and to give me the desire to reconnect with Him.
February 18th, 2010 @ 7:04 am
Hello all,
Sorry for the late entry, as my Lent has gotten off to a busy start. I have enjoyed reading the postings and getting to know new friends from many places.
I was first introduced to Henri Nouwen through his connection with art and the Prodigal Son. From there, I have read nearly all his books and deeply identify with his struggle to remain faithful to the call in a difficult world. As I enter this season of repentance and forgiveness, my own heart is struggling with a challenge I am facing as the leader of a non-profit hospice. Henri has offered much encouragement to me through his writings, and it is this thought, copied into my journal about a year ago, that comes to sum up what he has given to my life and what he has taught me about what it means to be fully human in search of the divine. He wrote:
“Home is not always comfortable and community is not easy. In every community the healing of acceptance happens and deep betrayals take place. There is always someone in the community who betrays your trust or hands you over to something painful or unwanted…But it’s not just one person who does the betraying. In the eyes of others, I may be that person. Or you may be that person. It’s not that one person in the community is the problem: it’s more that different people are handing other people over to suffering all the time without even wanting to or knowing what they are doing. There is always someone who doesn’t satisfy my need or someone who irritates me. Community is not some sentimental ideal place or time where everybody lives together, loves each other, and always gets along. That’s never going to happen…Rather, in living together we come to realize that community doesn’t require or offer total emotional harmony. It offers us the context where we try to love one another and receive the love and care of others.”
In relation to the Scripture, building on what Jen said in her post, I was equally struck by how Jesus fasted and can apply this challenge to my own life to fast, not just from food, but from selfish thoughts and time wasters and all those distractions that lead me to temptation. I believe Jesus recognized that dealing with people can be a drain on the spirit, which is why he set apart times of private rest and prayer. As a leader, I am called to do the same.
Grace and blessings,
Amy
February 18th, 2010 @ 1:53 am
I’m in Southern California. I work in the health care field which receives much of my energy but my return on the ‘investment’ is much in knowing I can offer skill as well as compassion and attention to each person I encounter. Henri Nouwen’s book ‘The Wounded Healer’ was my first encounter with his wisdom and still influences me. I’m drawn to his humility and humanity and also to God’s redemptive touch on his life and through his life for others. I’m recently learning about Christian traditions of liturgy, traditions, seasons and practices. I’ve been involved as a leader in caring ministries in congregations. Being an introvert made that a challenge at times! Lent feels so important to me to settle away from the usual frenzy of life and ponder Jesus’ life and how His life is in me now. How am (do I) I truly loving Him?
February 18th, 2010 @ 1:46 am
Hello, my name is Katie and I’m currently living in Northern Colorado.
*This year I’m part of a church internship program of sorts. My church has recently started up a coffee shop/events center. All of my time and energy are spent there. It is also the place in which I am currently a “leader”. Being able to sit and talk with all sorts of people at all sorts of walks, learning how to be a servant leader (cleaning bathrooms for no pay gets old after awhile), and as I’m a ’supervisor’ I’m leading by example to other volunteers.
*I first was introduced to H.N. through the Return of the Prodigal Son. I’m pretty sure most of that book was highlighted…
*Like most of you I also grew up Protestant and didn’t even really know what Lent was. The past few years though certain professors and pastors have really emphasized the Lent season. Especially as a time to take a good look at my life to see where I’ve strayed. To evaluate myself and realign with God and his will. I try to give something up that has started to take God’s place in my life. Or something that has distracted me from God’s voice in my life. To sort of clean out a bit of the clutter so I can truly focus on God.
I’m excited to journey with you all
February 17th, 2010 @ 11:36 pm
I am self-employed living in Mississippi with my wife and two teenage daughters. I don’t recall who told me about Henri, but God bless em’! Tonight we went to our church for Ash Wednesday which has a lot of meaning to me, like the season opener! My hope and prayer is that our Lenten journey together will be enriched and renewed. As far as leadership goes, I teach 6th grade SS and lead a middle school boys small group. Love and feed are the two words in the verses that jumped out at me. “Together,” we can do this!
February 17th, 2010 @ 10:41 pm
I live in Indianapolis, IN. I’m a nurse that works with patients with mental illness. The first book that I remember reading was a book with the words New Wineskin somewhere in the title but don’t recall the exact name. The Wounded Healer is the one I have connected with the most. I read Henri’s writings for the first time around 20 years ago and find myself drawn back to him because of his ability to reveal so accurately what is in his soul. I have never read In the Name of Jesus before but know it will be a part of my journey. I’m currently in the middle of a decision to change churches. I have grown up in the Methodist denomination and have belonged to a Methodist church all my life. We do acknowledge Lent but my own personal experience has not been that rich with this season in the Christian calender. I have been in different leadership roles in my church along with being a mom, grandma, wife, sister. I think Christian leadership is whereever Christ has called me in and out of the church.
Look forward to have this study and online exchange during Lent.
Cindy
February 17th, 2010 @ 9:03 pm
Wife, mother, grandmother and business owner, living in Santa Cruz, California, came to a saving grace in Christ through a Bible teaching church 15 years ago.
Hope to gain insight into Lent and grow in my knowledge of our Savior.
Having started a business and continue to operate after 28 years, we have a heart for those in ministry who serve 24/7.
February 17th, 2010 @ 8:31 pm
Judy in Hawaii.
I am a wife of 54 years, mom of 6 and grandmother of 17.
I was brought up in the Catholic tradition, but have been in a protestant church family for many years now. I have missed the emphasis placed on the Liturgical year…Advent, Lent, Pentecost etc. Today I attended Ash Wed. services at a local Catholic Church. My daughter, who happens to be Jewish, sent me this link so I am excited to go on my Lenten journey with all of you. The next 40 days we will all draw closer to Jesus and feed His Lambs and his Sheep!
February 17th, 2010 @ 7:03 pm
I live in Upstate New York, near Rochester. I am a retired college administrator who also spent a few years working for our diocesan church. I love the freedom of retirement and invest my energy now just trying to be the person I am.
I first encountered the writings of Henri Nouwen as part of a directed retreat about 10 years ago. Ever since, I have come to regard him much like a trusted and reliable friend.
Ash Wednesday is my gentle nudge to take inventory of the blessings and struggles in my life.
Christian leader: A colleague recently asked me to meet with him informally from time to time just to support him in his desire for a more spiritual life.
“Worship the Lord your God, and serve only Him.”
February 17th, 2010 @ 6:11 pm
Good afternoon all. I hail from Southeast Wisconsin along Lake Michigan’s coastline — which serves me well when I seek to go deeper in my thoughts. A mother of a son (with a wonderful wife) and two grandchildren; I have held various lay leadership roles in my church. I have been on the roles of unemployment now for an extended period seeking to find that place that I am led to be at. Growing up in a family with a Catholic mother and a Lutheran father we were raised in the Lutheran faith, I married into the Catholic faith and now am very active in a UCC family. Lent has always meant to do with less, but now I have learned how doing so adds value to everything I do experience. I have read several of Henri’s books — but I am not sure how I first discovered his work. I do know I have gone back to his work several times each time gleaning something new to help me on my spiritual path. I look forward to our discussions.
February 17th, 2010 @ 5:50 pm
Hello, we are having a very snowy day with school closures and to look out and see a wonderland, it is awesome along with neighbourhood kids making snow forts! I was able to get to Mass today at 12:15p.m. and to get my ashes. The church was approx. 150 members, holds about 300. There is another Mass tonight at 7p.m. I write from Hammonds Plains, Nova Scotia. Church is in Bedford, Nova Scotia, just outside our City of Halifax, N.S. Canada. So thrilled to join everyone. Husband is Paul and three children,fraternal twin sons,Mark,Scott(20)and daughter, Chelsea 18! Very blessed! 1st time joining a group for discussions on line! Whoo hoo!
February 17th, 2010 @ 5:40 pm
Hello,
I live in Raamsdonksveer, a place in the Netherlands. I was active in teaching and now retired. In my church (protestant) I am involved in liturgical work, for example preparing evening prayer in the Holy Week.
In 1992 I ‘met’ Henri Nouwen by reading Reaching Out. After that Henri became a guide in my spiritual life. What draws me to him is that Henri is very close to Jesus.
In the time of Lent I am used to live sober, special in relation to food and TV.
Christian leadership: I organised meetings with the video ‘The Beloved’ in a liturgical setting and made in cooperation with the Henri Nouwen Foundation a little booklet and distributes this now.
The words that me struck now by reading M.4:1-11 are the last: and angels came to serve for him.
February 17th, 2010 @ 4:27 pm
I am a 70yr old Grandmother from New Zealand.I am wanting to have an ever increasing knowing & trust that my Creator is really for real.I have read many wonderful books that have been & are really encouraging,Henri Nouwen especially.Truth to tell though it is one thing to read about Him another to have that deep inner,inner knowing that He is there within & without.I do struggle quite a bit with this,given life’s ups & downs.
‘Now we see only an indistinct image in a mirror, but then we will be face to face.’ Now what I know is incomplete, but then I will know fully, even as I have been fully known’1Cor.13:12
Many blessings
February 17th, 2010 @ 4:17 pm
Hi to all!
I live in very snowy NW Iowa. I am the wife of a Lutheran pastor, mother of five children, and grandmother of two.
Last month I was blessed to make a pilgrimage/retreat to the Holy Land. As I read John and Matthew, I couldn’t help but be back along the Sea of Galilee and the Mount of Temptation. Having been there, I am reminded that these are very real places and so the stories about them are the stuff of very real lives.
The temptation of Jesus takes place in a very desolate area, where he was very much alone and very much tempted to deny his identity as God’s Son. The Sea of Galilee is a communal place where Peter was called to love Jesus and care for his sheep. I see both stories challenging and encouraging me to authentic living and loving both in my identity as God’s daughter and in community.
Peace and Joy to all of you as we begin our Lenten journey together–Deborah
February 17th, 2010 @ 4:00 pm
What a beautiful start we have had! I feel blessed by each of you. It is amazing to have people from all over the U.S.A., Canada as well as representation from the UK, Germany and Indonesia. I wish I could respond to each of you personally. Do know I have read and appreciated what each of you wrote.
It is obvious that each of us is walking in a different type of Christian leadership role, but I can see a common theme of truly wanting to care for the people in our lives. I can also see that each of you has something to share on how to be a Christian leader.
The one question I saw in the postings was from Shannon. Yes, I do believe that the Lenten season is meant to parallel the 40 days Jesus spent in the desert, in that it is a time of preparation. Any other insights?
Let me also welcome the rest of you “out there” to add your self-introduction. You still have a few days to do so.
This is going to be so rich!
Brynn
February 17th, 2010 @ 3:37 pm
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February 17th, 2010 @ 3:08 pm
I live in Los Angeles, CA. I am a full-time missionary in an inner city neighborhood here, and I train, pastor, and disciple others who feel called to practice incarnational living and ministry among the urban poor.
I’ve had some familiarity with the church calendar in general throughout my life, but this morning was the first time I’d attended an Ash Wednesday service in nearly a decade. Lent usually catches me by surprise (in that I don’t realize it’s coming up so soon in the year), but this year, God has been growing a deeper desire for holiness within me, as well as a deeper desire to know that He is holy. It’s made me quieter on the inside, more drawn to contemplative prayer and the simple things of spirituality, and ultimately more desirous of spending time in silence before God.
From the Matthew reading: I’m struck by how Jesus himself fasted and prayed before his earthly ministry, even that the Spirit himself led him into it.
February 17th, 2010 @ 2:37 pm
I very much enjoy Henri Nouwen’s writings; they seem real to me and I find them to be helpful in understanding my own journey. I was involved in lay ministry in my church for a number of years, but I’ve been a non practicing Catholic for an equal number of years. I have lots of issues with church dogma, doctrines and the hierarchy, etc. Ash Wednesday doesn’t hold much meaning for my these days. I’m not quite sure why I decided to sign up for this Lenten discussion, there is a yearning within, that I don’t quite understand, I guess that’s what drew me to it.
February 17th, 2010 @ 1:57 pm
Greetings! I would like to try as part of my Lenten discipline to enter into the conversations provided by this study. This is one of my favorite books of Nouwen. I am an Anglican Priest. We have as part of our congregation some core members of L’Arche here in Richmond Hill. Lent for me is about growing in my faith, and in my vocation as a priest. From the Matthew story, I connect with the reality that as Jesus faced temptations, God was with him. Through being open to God’s presence, and realizing that the Spirit could make a difference, Jesus overcame what was placed before him. As a leader in the church today, I need to be reminded how with God’s help I too can overcome the temptations that that leadership role affords me. That is why I regularly read “In the Name of Jesus”. It’s been a while since I have … it’s time to read it again! Thank you for this opportunity.
February 17th, 2010 @ 1:47 pm
Hello all …
My name is Ratih
I live in Bogor (near Jakarta) Indonesia.
I am a mother for 3 sons, my first son is autistic, I manage an autistic therapy center.
My priest suggested I read Nouwen’s books. My first book was The Return of Prodigal Son. It’s really a great book; made me really feel beloved of God.
I was born in Catholic tradition, so Ash Wednesday is a sign for being closer to God.
Because I’m a mother I think that I have become a Christian leader in my daily life at home, how I take care of my husband and my children.
John 21:15-19, make me reflect myself; Do I really love God?
February 17th, 2010 @ 1:38 pm
I too come from a Protestant background and so have not thought much about Lent in the past but I’m paying more attention this year. Preparation sounds like a good idea especially as we are also in lifelong preparation for our face to face with God.
These days I spend most of my energy taking care of my family. The bit I have left goes to Bible reading, spiritual study and my art. We’re currently in Munich, Germany serving the Kingdom there.
My introduction to Henri Nouwen was through his book The Genesee Diary about 12-15 years ago. I’ve always felt a kinship with those living a monastic lifestyle and so this book was very interesting and helpful in my own journey. I’ve since benefited from many of Henri’s writings.
I have a question after reading the Matt. passage. Are the Lent season and the 40 days Jesus spent in the desert fasting supposed to be parallel?
February 17th, 2010 @ 1:22 pm
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February 17th, 2010 @ 12:20 pm
My name is Roy.
*location: San Diego
*daily energy invested: as a father of two, a husband, a seminary student and a corporate chaplain
*Introduced to Henri Nouwen: I got introduced to the works of Nouwen when I first read Abba’s Child by Brennan Manning. I started reading more of Nouwen’s works after that. I’m drawn to fresh take to God that Nouwen experienced and wrote about. I come from a charismatic/pentecostal background and have been on a search for God for a while. I honor my spiritual upbringing but I’m looking for something that grounds me ever deeper in the reality of God’s love and presence.
*Ash Wednesday/Advent is not really practiced in my charismatic tradition. It is something that I’ve personally delved into more and more the last 3 years or so.
*Christian Leader: the obvious is my role as a corporate chaplain where I get to provide care and support to many. my role as a husband and father, for me, are the more important ways I provide christian leadership.
*”he was led…”
February 17th, 2010 @ 11:49 am
I live in Hertfordshire, UK. I am a PhD student exploring how Christian spirituality impacts leadership in organisations. I can’t remember exactly how I found the writings of Henri Nouwen, but I have gravitated to reading personal stories of Christians who hungered for more of God and exploring how God has led them. The writings of Henri Nouwen are so engaging. Like Mirjam above, Lent has not featured prominently in my church background, although for a while I ‘kept’ the ‘days of unleavened bread’ where I gave up things with yeast, and ate bread/crispbread. The emphasis then was on ‘removing sin’ and how hard it is to do so! (Bread/Sin very tempting and all over the place!). Now I am attending the Vineyard church - which is more traditional/evangelical. With my background I am not as inclined on giving something up for Lent (too much focus on me/self-control etc) - but am interested in investing time to focus on God. I have been a ‘Christian leader’ in a variety of ways, but am still fathoming what it really means to be led by Christ and how we individually make sense of that for ourselves -that is where my energy goes everyday!! The thing that strikes me from the readings is that Christ asks Peter three times: Do you love me. Isn’t he asking that question of us every day? Do you love me? Do you love me? Do you love me?
February 17th, 2010 @ 11:38 am
Dallas, TX
I heard about Henri Nouwen from counseling. I think I kept mentioning a lot of themes Nouwen discusses, and the counselor encouraged me to read Return of The Prodigal Son, The Wounded Healer, and In the Name of Jesus. So I did. What draws me is his realness. He is raw. He is not afraid to walk in his woundedness. He is humble. He doesn’t deny reality. I needed that.
Ash Wednesday, I grew up Protestant, so no significance. However, this morning I went to an Ash Wednesday Mass for the first time, and am humbled and enjoyed it. I want to do something for Lent for my personal journey. Any suggestions are welcomed.
I invest my daily energy in mentoring, leading, and investing in high school students. I am interested in seeing what everyone and Nouwen (in the middle of the book currently) has to say about Christian leaders since I am supposed to be one for teenagers, but am in the middle of my own pain and healing. I have seen God use my process to start the healing process of others, so it has been good, but it doesn’t take away the pain or the fact that it’s still hard.
Looking forward to growing, learning and getting to know you
February 17th, 2010 @ 10:51 am
I live in Berlin/Germany. When I had a hard time in my life somebody gave me ‘The inner Voice of Love’. That touched me very much and went with me. I found that in the books I read from Henri often he would use words that expressed what I found in my soul but didn’t have words to discribe…
In the church tradition that I originate from Ash Wednesday didn’t mean much. As I remember what touched me most during Lenten time in the past was when I watched one of the Jesus films - but haven’t done that in a long time. I’d love to learn what it means to others in their spiritual journey.
At the moment I have no other role in leadership than leading my own life more intentionally.
I’m looking forward to getting to know you and your insights.
February 17th, 2010 @ 10:21 am
I live in central Pennsylvania (Pa Dutch Country)and am in full-time parish ministry. Henri has been a major influence throughout my life — indeed, I’ve begun to re-read my collection of his works in my library.
In the Name of Jesus remains one of my favorite Nouwen works and this discussion is coming at a time when I am seeking to refocus into “partial” retirement. Hopefully I will have something of value to offer.
February 17th, 2010 @ 10:10 am
I am from New Orleans, Louisiana and serve as the Director of a fledgling faith based health center called New Orleans Faith Health Alliance. My first encounter with Henri Nouwen came from an adult education class at my church. However, recently, 1 person volunteering with us recommended this very book and another person shared a reflection from the daily reflections with me and it fit with a piece I had been writing for our newsletter. I am looking forward to knowing him more and sharing Lent with you.
February 17th, 2010 @ 10:09 am
I am here to seek ideas for spritual living, especially during Lent.
February 17th, 2010 @ 9:02 am
* Kansas City
* Full-time organized ministry
* Suggested book read by friend/Belovedness
* Ash Wednesday services noted as beginning of Lent
* In-house Director of living facility for college-age women
* Angels came/Feed my sheep
February 17th, 2010 @ 7:18 am
Greetings,
I live on Fidalgo Island in Washington State. The beginning of this Lenten season coincides with a career transition as I am being “down-sized” out of an organization that I have been involved with for more than twenty years.
Exodus imagery has been very meaningful to me as I approach this transition. There is fear and trepidation, but also hope and excitement.
Henri’s Lenten prayer to be deaf to voices that call to us about prestige, success, pleasure, power and influence and to be open instead to the voice of the Lord, are my prayer also this morning.
It feels good to be fully human this morning, to experience the mix of emotions I am feeling, to be excited about the new future God is leading me to.
Grace and peace,
Curtis
February 16th, 2010 @ 8:39 pm
I know I am a day early, but I thought I’d get this conversation started! Most of you have already read my bio, so I won’t repeat those details.
I first got to know a bit about Henri Nouwen when I went to the Cedars, which is the retreat house at L’Arche Daybreak in Richmond Hill. The house has a wonderful library, including many books that belonged to Henri, or were written by him. I remember reading a bit about him, and realizing that this man had ongoing struggles. I was so encouraged that a man who struggled throughout his life could also rise above those struggles and reach out to touch other people. If God could work amidst Henri’s struggles, surely He could work amidst mine!
I would love to hear from you all about the significance of Ash Wednesday. Coming from a protestant background it was not a significant part of Easter preparation for me. Please share!
Finally, a time when I filled the role of a Christian leader. As I say, I think life is full of opportunities to be a Christian leader. A clear example I can give was my time as a teacher in a Christian International school. I would say the times of just listening to students who came by to “talk” after class was the most important opportunity I had to be a leader in their life. A listening ear can go a long way!!
Enough from me! I’d love to hear from you.
Brynn