Nouwen Online Reading Group

THE INNER VOICE OF LOVE - September to November

October 13-19: “Enter the New Country”

Filed under: Inner Voice of Love — October 10, 2008 @ 8:17 am

During the week of October 13th we will be covering the chapters from “Remain Attentive to Your Best Intuitions” through to “Acknowledge Your Powerlessness” (pages 16-31). The two chapters for our discussion will be “Enter the New Country” (page 21) and “Acknowledge Your Powerlessness” (page 30).  Please share your thoughts and comments. And if you have a chapter in this section that you want to comment on, please e-mail me (jackgiven@comcast.net) your comment and I will include it as we go through this thought provoking, challenging and life-enriching way of exploring The Inner Voice of Love.

Enter the New Country

In order to enter the new country what must you do? What is the only way to go there?   Share with us your journey into an aspect of your life that is a new country. What is – or was – the journey like?  What are you discovering?

October 13-19: “Acknowledge Your Powerlessness”

Filed under: Inner Voice of Love — October 10, 2008 @ 8:00 am

During the week of October 13th we will be covering the chapters from “Remain Attentive to Your Best Intuitions” through to “Acknowledge Your Powerlessness” (pages 16-31). The two chapters for our discussion will be “Enter the New Country” (page 21) and “Acknowledge Your Powerlessness” (page 30).  Please share your thoughts and comments. And if you have a chapter in this section that you want to comment on, please e-mail me (jackgiven@comcast.net) your comment and I will include it as we go through this thought provoking, challenging and life-enriching way of exploring The Inner Voice of Love.
 
Acknowledge Your Powerlessness

Henri states, “You have to say ‘yes’ fully to your powerlessness in order to let God heal you.”  What does he suggest about power and powerlessness? Where do you struggle giving up trying to control or have power in your life?

Week of October 6 – part two of two

Filed under: Inner Voice of Love — October 2, 2008 @ 7:37 am

During the week of October 6th we are discussing 2 chapters:  “Set boundaries to your love”, page 9, and in the post below this one, “Stop Being a Pleaser”.  We invite you to explore and comment on both chapters.  Setting boundaries to my love is something that has been a struggle for me for a long time.  It is because I so want to offer genuine love to people that I realize that the goal of mutuality in love requires a change in me for the good of others.  It’s been hard for me to discern my own lack of boundaries except when I feel exhausted, used or manipulated.  Henri Nouwen’s statement “The great task is to claim yourself for yourself, so that you can contain your needs within the boundaries of your self and hold them in the presence of those you love,” somehow rings true to me but my understanding is fuzzy.  What exactly does “containing your needs within the boundaries of your self” look like?  If it helps other people to be loved, that’s above everything else what I want to do.  I think heaven must be filled with people loving each other mutually and earth is populated with people not being able to do that, plenty of oppression and exploitation and taking advantage of each other.  Heavenly love is that peaceful love which is my spiritual goal. - Sharon
What is so important about setting boundaries?  How can not establishing boundaries be destructive?  What good can come out of setting boundaries?  How have you applied Nouwen’s statement “the great task is to claim yourself for yourself” in your life?
 

Week of October 6 – part one of two

Filed under: Inner Voice of Love — October 2, 2008 @ 7:34 am

During the week of October 6th we are discussing 2 chapters. We invite you to participate in all chapter discussions, especially the ones that particularly resonate with you.

“Stop being a pleaser”  (page 5)
Brennan Manning, who introduced me to Henri Nouwen, gave me a life phrase – “The Abba loves me very much”. Seeking to please others in order to get validation for who we are is robbing ourselves of the relationship with the Abba who loves us unconditionally. I have found myself asking, “Why am I striving to work for the love and acceptance of this mortal human being when the God of the Universe loves me just for who I am, not what I do, think, feel.”  In checking myself and my attitude towards people, I am led, again, to my favorite Nouwen quote. “What happened invites you to conversion”. This is the deepest meaning of history: a constant invitation calling us to turn our hearts to God and so discover the full meaning of our lives. ( Here and Now page 73). The urge to be a people pleaser can be an invitation to get closer to the Abba. How have you moved away from being a people pleaser to a closer relationship with God and discovered a fuller meaning in your life?
Jack  

Welcome Everyone!

Filed under: Inner Voice of Love — September 30, 2008 @ 8:14 am

Today is the start of our journey through The Inner Voice of Love.  I am looking forward to it partially because there has been so much interest.  I’m amazed at the number of people who have said, “That is my favorite book!”  And so, with that in mind, let’s meet each other - let’s gather together as Paul encourages us to do in Hebrews 10:25, “Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another - and all the more as you see the Day approaching.”
So, as we start out on this journey together, please introduce yourself. Tell us something about yourself, your hopes and expectations from this blog and maybe why you like The Inner Voice of Love.
I’ll start.  My name is Jack Given and I live in a small town whose name means “Vale of Paradise”, outside of Chicago.  My wife and I had read a book called Ruthless Trust by Brennan Manning and went to a spiritual workshop he was giving in Minocqua WI.  It was at that workshop that I first heard the name, Henri Nouwen.  I ‘googled’ (isn’t that the way everybody educates themselves these days?) him and began to read his books and get the daily reflection newsletter.  I also joined a reading group blog.  When it came to an end, I said, “Wait!! We can’t stop!” And I petitioned Maureen of the Nouwen Society to set up a blog on the daily reflections so that we could dialogue, raise questions and encourage each other in reviewing and applying Henri’s Bread for the Journey.

Well, that was 2 years ago and now I’ve been blessed to be a part of several online book discussions, challenged by thoughts, ideas and tears shared in the comments on the daily reflections and here I am about to embark with you on a trip through The Inner Voice of Love!!  The Inner Voice of Love takes the wealth of Nouwen’s spiritual life and discipline and puts it into the ‘down and dirty’ crevices and failures of our lives and gives us hope.  It was written by a man who knows what it is to walk through valleys and shadows and I’m challenged by his life, application and experiences.
All of us have a story. Tell us a little of your story and your being here with us in this blog.

PS And let me edit in this apology. Being born before 1960, I lack the “computer friendly” gene. And I mis-posted something and then tried to correct it which didn’t happen.  SO….if you posted an intro for yourself and can’t find it, here’s an opportunity to put mercy into practice (mercy for my ineptitude) and re-post in the comment section under this post.  Thank you!!

 

Discussion begins Monday September 29th. Please join us!

Filed under: Inner Voice of Love — September 19, 2008 @ 8:24 am

Dear Friends,

We’ll soon be discussing The Inner Voice of Love. I have been encouraged by the response and people sharing with me “that is my FAVORITE book”. It should be a rich, active discussion!

Let me share with you the outline of  the discussion and how I’m looking forward to working WITH YOU.

There are simply too many sections to discuss each one with any degree of respect for the material or the participants in an Internet blog. So, I thought it best to discuss a couple of the sections each week. To avoid my arbitrarily picking a section and forcing a discussion if there is more interest in another section during any particular week, I’m asking you who will be a part of this discussion blog to (1) e-mail me (jackgiven@comcast.net) the name of the sections you specifically would like to have discussed and (2) a brief paragraph of why THAT section is meaningful to you. The schedule is posted under “Pages” on the righthand side of your screen.

Please join our discussion as a reader or contributor and let’s make this preparation for Advent a rich season of welcoming the presence of God into our lives in a newer and deeper way by walking with Henri Nouwen through what were some difficult days for him and may be difficult times for many of us… But walking WITH Nouwen through them….and with Immanuel – God WITH us.

Blessings,

Jack

Next discussion: The Inner Voice of Love

Filed under: Inner Voice of Love — May 17, 2008 @ 12:49 pm

Warm greetings!  We thought we’d take a break over the summer (partly because I will be on sabbatical) and resume our discussions in September. Jack Given has graciously agreed to lead us in a discussion of The Inner Voice of Love, starting September 29th.  So, please add this book to your collection of summer reading! You can purchase a copy of the book from Daybreak Books & Media, an outreach ministry of the L’Arche Daybreak community by contacting Steve Ellis at 1-800-853-1412 | nouwenbooks@larchedaybreak.com.  You can also order it at www.henrinouwen.org/shopcart.

We wish you a peaceful, healthy, restful and joyous summer and look forward to our discussion in the fall.  Please feel free of course, to post here at any time.  We are always happy to hear from you.

Maureen
Resource Coordinator, Henri Nouwen Society

Concluding Prayer

Filed under: Walk With Jesus — March 31, 2008 @ 9:53 am

My fears, dear Lord, of opening my eyes to the suffering world are deeply rooted in my own anxious heart.  I am not sure that I, myself, am truly loved and safely held, and so I keep my distance from other people’s fear-filled lives. But again you say: “Do not be afraid to let me look at your wounded heart, to embrace you, to heal you, to comfort and console you . . . because I love you with a love that knows no bounds and poses no conditions.”. . . As your passion, death, and resurrection continue in history, give me the hope, the courage, and the confidence to let your heart unite my heart with the hearts of all your suffering people, and so become for us the divine source of new life.
Amen.
Excerpt from Henri Nouwen’s Walk With Jesus, Orbis Books. Posted with the kind permission of the publisher.

Many thanks to Jack Given for leading this Lenten discussion and to Jacquie Lombardi for assisting us with the comment moderation.  We are very grateful to them and to all who participated.  Whether you shared regularly, once in a while or just checked in from time to time to read the excerpt and comments, we hope your spirit was nourished and renewed.  We invite you to continue to read and post comments here.  When we’ve organized the next book discussion we’ll post a notice and ask you to help us get the word out.  Once again, we invite you to give us your suggestions for the next book.
Peace and Easter blessings,
Maureen
Resource Coordinator, Henri Nouwen Society
 

XV. Jesus rises from the dead

Filed under: Walk With Jesus — March 25, 2008 @ 7:16 am

On that morning of the first day of the week, Mary of Magdala, and Mary the mother of James and Salome found the tomb empty and heard a young man in a white robe say: ??He is not here.?? Mary of Magdala heard him call her by name, and Cleopas and his friend recognized him at Emmaus in the breaking of the bread. In the evening of that same day, he came and stood among his disciples, saying, ??Peace be with you,?? and showed them his hands and his side. As these things took place, new words broke out of the silence of Holy Saturday and touched the hearts and the minds of the men and women who had known and loved Jesus. These words were, ??He has risen, risen indeed,?? They were whispered from ear to ear as an intimate message that could be truly heard and understood only by a heart that had been yearning for the coming of the kingdom and had recognized its first signs in the words and deeds of the man from Nazareth. . . . As we live our lives with a resurrection faith, our burdens become light burdens and our yokes easy yokes because we have found rest in the gentle and humble heart of Jesus that belongs for all eternity to God.
Excerpt from Henri Nouwen’sWalk With Jesus, Orbis Books. Posted with the kind permission of the publisher.

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XIV. Jesus is laid into the grave

Filed under: Walk With Jesus — March 20, 2008 @ 3:40 pm

Joseph of Arimathea placed the body of Jesus “in a tomb which was hewn in stone and which had never held a body.” On the seventh day of the week of our redemption, when Jesus had fulfilled all he was sent by his Father to do, he rested in the tomb, and the women from Galilee whose hearts were broken with grief rested with him. Of all the days in history, Holy Saturday–the Saturday during which the body of Jesus lay in the tomb in silence and darkness, is the day on which the whole creation waits in deep inner rest. It is the day on which no words are spoken, no proclamations made, buried in the darkness of the earth. This divine silence is the most fruitful silence that the world has ever known. From this silence, the Word will be spoken again and make all things new.
Excerpt from Henri Nouwen’s Walk With Jesus, Orbis Books. Posted with the kind permission of the publisher.

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